DEFEND YOUR WIFE BEFORE YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS

BE MORE ENTHUSIATCS ABOUT HER MORE THAN OTHER ACTIVTIES EVEN CHILDREN

Give priority to your wife. She is more important than any other program, activity or your children.

AVOID FLIRTING WITH OTHER WOMEN OR LIFTING THEM ABOVE YOUR WIFE

KISS HER SONTANENEOUSLY

CONSIDER YOUR WIFE BEFORE REACTING TO ISSUES

SMILE WHEN YOU SEE HER

SHOW INTEREST IN HER PASSION AND LIFE

BE SINCERE WITH HER. Don’t have sexual relationship with other women apart from your wife your body is foe her and her alone.

DO NOT PRETEND TO HER SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY.

CREATE A POSITIVE ATMOSPHERE AT HOME. Don’t make yourself a lion in the home that anyone else is afraid of, if your wife and children are always happy when you are away, then you are not a real man. You are a dictator . make the atmosphere conducive for her and your children.

DROPLOVE NOTE IN HER PURSE OR HANDBAG

GIVE HER MONEY TO BUY THINGS FOR HERSELF AT INTERVALS

DEMAND TO KNOW HER HEROES, MENTORS, FAVORITE STORIES AND SHARE YOURS WTH HER

GIVE HER MONEY O BUY THINGS FOR PARENT WITH OUTHER DEMANDING FOR IT

BE AFFECTIONATE AND EXPRESSIVE

TREAT HER LIKE A WFE AND NOT A GIRL FRIEND.

SPONSOR HER TO HER FAVORITE EVENTS

CUT HER NAILS FINGER AND TOE. Don’t allow other things to take your attention away from her.

SHOW HER LOVE THROUGH YOUR ACTIONS

BUY HER FAVORITE NEWSPAPER AND MAGAZINES.

LET HER KNOW THAT YOUADMIRE HER A LOT.

PAY YOUR CHILDREN’S SCHOOL FEES PROMPTLY AND REGULARLY.

GIVE HER ENOUGH MONEY FOR FAMILY UPKEEP PROMPTLY AND REGULARLY.

CALL HER WHILE IN THE OFFICE TO KNOW HOW THE DAY IS GOING

SEE HER GOALS AS YOUR OWN

SURPRISE HER WITH CARDS AND GIFTS

FLIRT WITH YOUR WIFE BECAUSE SHE DESERVES IT.

APPRECIATE HER ACTIONS THAT MAKES YOU FEEL LOVED

WATCH THE PROGRAMMSES AND MOVIES SHE PREFERS OCCATIONALLY.

ALWAYS GIVE HER COMPIMENT AND TELL HER YOU LOVE HER.

TELL YOUR WIFE THAT SHE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND.

USE VARIEY TO BREAK UP MONOTOMY IN FEEDING, DRESSING AND SEX.

WRITE LOVE LETTERS TO HER , SEND LOVE AND ROMANTIC TEXT MESSAGES TO HER.

KNOW HER FAVORITES BY ASKING HER, FOR EXAMPLE.COLOUR, MUSICS AND FILMS

TREAT HER LIKE A BABY. Women loved to be pampered, the Bible says that they are weaker vessels. Handle your wife with  utmost care and she will satisfy you.

HELP HER TO MAINTAIN HER FOCUS AND ACTUALIZE HER DREAMS.

REGULARLY FOCUS ON YOUR OWN GOALS AND DREAMS. As a real man and a man of honor do you have goals and dreams? If you aim at nothing you hit nothing. Your goal is exactly what you want to accomplish in life. Don’t live your live without dreams and goals. If you don’t have direction for your life, others will direct it towards the accomplishment  of their personal goals and objectives.

YOU MUST UNDERSTAND AS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY THAT EACH STAKES SHE MAKES IS NOT OPPORTUNITY  TO CONDEMN HER.

SOMETIMES BE PLAYFUL AND NOT LOOKING SERIOUS ALWAYS.

NURTURE YOUR RELAIONSHIP, MAKE IT GROW. DON’T GIVE ANY ROOM TO BECOME SICK AND DIE

HONOUR YOUR WIFE. Some men honor other women but have no respect for their wives. Some pastors honor women who are there church members but have little or no regards for their wives.

BE MINDFUL OF HOW YOU SPEAK OR USE BODY LANGUAGE WIH HER.

LEARN HOW TO INCREASE HER DESIRE TO SUCCEED.

SPEAK ON THE ISSUEAT HAND DURING ARGUMENTS NOT ON THE PAST.

AS A REAL MAN, DEVELOP GOOD HEALTH AND FITNESS HABITS.

PLAY ROMANTIC GAMES WITH HER. You can challenge your wife on which of you that will be more romantic in a particular week.

ASK HER ABOUT HER SEXUAL NEEDS AND SATISFY HER

IMPROVE YOUR SENSUALITY. Women are not easily aroused. As a loving husband who want to win the heart of his wife, learn how you can get her arouse in order to meet her sexual desire.

ENDEAVOUR TO BE RECEPTIVE AND RESPONSIVE TO HER

SOME TIMES MESSAGE HER SCALP, EYE BROWS, TEMPLE AND NIPPLES.

MARRIAGE IS A SCHOOL,KEEP LEARNING, KEEP STUDYING YOUR AND KEEP GROWING TO WIN HER HEART COPLETELY

ENCOURAGE HER TO BUY THNGS FOR HERSELF SOMETIMES, NOT FOR THE FAMILY.

WHEN TAKNG DECISIONS,CONSIDER HER FEELING AND OPINION

LET HER  KNOW YOU ACCEPT HER

EXPLORE HER MIND BODY AND SOUL

LISTEN ATTENTIVELY TO WHAT SHE IS SAYING WITHOUT INTERUPING HER

BE PASSIONATE

ASSIST HER TO VISUALISE HER GOALS AND DREAMS

PRAY FOR YOUR WIFE ALWAYS. The Bible says that the heart of the king including the heart of your wife is in the hands of God and he can turn it to any direction. Pray to God for your wife  towards you. Tell God in prayer the type of wife you would love to marry and ask him to make your wife that very person. If your wife discovers that you pray for her every day, you will win her heart and she will reciprocate.

SPEAK WELL OF YOUR WIFE. What you say concerning her regularly will always manifest. “Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat of the fruit thereof.” (prov.18:21). What you say about your wife is what others will say about her.

PRAISE YOUR WIFE PRIVATELY AND PUBLICLY. Men appreciate respect and honor but women love praise. As a husband, tell your wife that she is beautiful. Tell her that she is more beautiful than your mother. Tell her that she has made a world of difference in your life and career.

TRUST YOUR WIFE. Any marriage built on suspicion will crumble. Suspicion is a weapon which the enemy use to destroy marriage. A man discovered that his friend was enjoying his marriage better than his. He told his friend who was enjoying a happy home that his wife flirt with other men. His friend believed him and picked up quarrel with his wife. It was so serious that for five years there was no sexual relationship between them. To God be the glory, the truth was later established and the marriage rekindled. Don’t allow your enemies who pretend to be friends destroy your marriage. TRUST YOUR WIFE.

GIVE HER SOME TOUCH AFTER EACH DAYS WORK. Your wife will enjoy a soft touch coming from her beloved husband. No matter how old a woman may be, if a man touches her, she will say leave me, most time I understand the leave me to mean touch me again because I am enjoying the touch.

RESPECT HER. Respect beget respect. The Bible says that your wife is part of you. In this life if you disrespect your wife you are disrespecting yourself. Your wife is not your housemaid, she is in your house to make you whole. Without her you are incomplete. If you respect your wife, your relations, friends and family members will respect her, but if you do otherwise you will bring shame and disrespect not only to her but to yourself also. The truth is that if you desire her respect and the respect of  others including your children, you must respect that wonderful woman God has given you.

CARE FOR HER NEEDS. Find the spiritual and material needs of your wife and help her to meet them. As you strive to meet her needs, she will want to keep you happy always by meeting your own desires. Someone said that if you want people to love you, you must show love. Be a caring husband to your wife if you want her to care for you.

REMIND YOUR WIFE OF HER MEMORABLE EVENTS. Before your  wife’s birthday, buy her a good card and present according to your ability. In the morning of her birth day, wake her up and say happy birth day to her, pray for her, prophesy into her life on what you want God to do for her. Find out favorite programs on radio and television, remind her and sometimes watch it with her.

HELP HER PLAN HER LIFE. Generally speaking women are unique and have unique ways of doing things. Only very few women are organized. Your wife might fall within the very few, you can still assist her to do it better. Women spend on impulse but most men think before they spend. You can teach your wife to make provisions any time money enters her hand.

LET HER KNOW YOU APPRECIATE WHAT SHE DOES FOR YOU AND FOR THE ENTIRE FAMLY. We were told in the scripture that when one out of ten persons Jesus Christ healed came to show appreciation, the Lord himself was happy, he ask the man that came the where about of the rest nine. Women including your wife loves to be appreciated. When you appreciate a woman for what she has done, she will do more. If your wife prepares food with the money you gave to her for food, appreciate her, don’t conclude that is her responsibility. You may have heard that some women are so lazy to cook for their families.

BE HONEST  TO HER

TELL HER THAT SHE IS YOUR STRENGTH

PROVE TO HER THAT YOU BELIEVE IN HER

BUY PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT MATERIALS FOR HER

SUPPORT HER VISION

LOVE HER

PLAY WITH HER IN THE BEDROOM

REVIEW HER DAY WITH HER

LET HER KNOW HOW SMART AND WISE SHE IS.