Go to play ground that is not in use and play! Take a long picnic, lunch baseball, bat, Frisbee or outdoor toys (blowing bubbles is fun) have great lunch after playtime

 

Don’t surprise your date with a hatchet movie, meal, etc on the first date, they may be allergic to horror films and don’t want to surprise a vegetarian at a dinner at “”Harvey’s House of Beef”” with a surprise date you could end with a teetotaler at a wine-tasting, or a lactose-intolerant date at a cheese fest- you get the picture of what I am talking about…..

  

Be Honest, don’t play games. Avoid even stretching the truth, the first time you are caught, it will destroy your credibility.

 

Be on time. Lateness is inconsiderate, not to mention it reveals all sort of things about your personality, such as passive- aggressive tendencies. If your date is late be pleasant and listen to their reasons, it might be legitimate, TELL YOURSELF YOUR ARE NOT NERVOUS, JUST EXCITED.

 

If your date compliments you don’t just brush it off or say something rude about yourself , say THANK YOU and DO NOT put yourself down.

 

If you are concern about topic of conversation, be sure to read a News paper or watch a news programme that day so you are up on the world events

 

Keep checking the inside (give the exterior stuff a rest). If you stay focused on looks you may end up ignoring or dumping a perfectly fantastic person without really giving them a chance.

 

Be open to your date to your dates ideas about what to do on the date and express yourself honestly and tactfully.

 

Don’t manhandle your date and don’t rush sex!

 

 

 

Keep the first date brief. Leave them wishing for more, not wondering how to escape.

 

Stay away from some one who only talks about money and thing or who boast a lot- usually signs of deep seated insecurity.

 

Don’t talk about marriage or kids and long term plans for the two of you on your first dates

 

Be clear about the date, time and place…..and be on time!! Don’t leave things hang with “”I’ll call you later with the details””

 

Keep topics light and keep away from controversial issues on the first date. Also refrain from using off-colors language or jokes or making sexual references

 

Try sporting events neither one of you have ever seen live: a polo match, professional tennis tournament, golf tournament, dressage, volley ball, tractor pull, sumo-wrestling- whatever you can agree on doing together that is different

 

Collect cocktail napkins or other mementos from all the parties you have been together.

 

Help solve a problem by writing letters to the love doctor “”DR TRUTH””

 

Remember games can be fun. Monopoly, computer games for two, card games, and end it all game of twister.

Or a different approach, pick a date according to your dates signs.